Jetta wheels help please/??..?

ok ive had a heck of a time trying to get wheels for my vr6 but i finally got someone to hook me up w/ the correct offset and bolt pattern but now my stock lug bolts wont work ... i simply need to know if there are aftermarket bolts for the smaller holes in the rims .. {same size threads obviously} but the 17mm head wont fit in the dam n hole . are these available or am i screw ed ? thanks